In light of recent circumstances, with Richard's deployment being extended, and our Hawaii vacation being canceled, I think it could be very easy for me to be upset and disappointed.
But, I'm not.
I've had time to think everything over and I really think it is for the best. It may not be what we had planned, or what we originally wanted, but I know that Richard is serving a great purpose for our country, and that God is in charge of all things...so really, who I am to argue with our Heavenly Father or America?
I know better than to even go there.
Instead, I decided I would make a list of all the reasons I am grateful to the Navy.
1) The Healthcare.
This would be reason enough, in my mind, to love the Navy. When I had Jacob, all we had to pay was $30, and that was only because I had an epidural. Richard teased me that it would have been free if I hadn't opted for the pain meds. And when we had Ryan? I got a glimpse of what it cost for him to stay in the NICU for five days: over $20,000 dollars. And that didn't even include the cost of labor and delivery, which was in the thousands as well.
We didn't pay a penny.
We didn't pay a penny.
If not for the Navy's amazing healthcare that they offer, not only would we still be in debt from those bills I am certain, but it also would have prevented us from taking on any additional financial burden, like buying our van which has been such an asset, and it most definitely would have meant no more children for us. Whether or not we have another child remains to be seen, but the option to have another would not even exist with a financial burden such as that. And I'm not even going to try to imagine the kind of stress we would be under, attempting to pay off those bills.
2) Job Security.
With the current economic times that we are in, I thank God every day that my husband works at a job where he cannot be fired. Sure, he also can't walk in and give his two-week's notice, but job security is invaluable these days. Also, Richard is up for promotions fairly often, which include pay raises - another nice benefit.
3) College.
Thanks to the Navy, my husband is finishing his college degree - for free. How many people would love to say they are getting a free college education? He is tremendously lucky. Also, thanks to the G.I. Bill, when our kids are college-age, one of them will be able to attend college for very little cost as well.
4) Leave.
Sure, the military might be picky about when Richard actually gets to use it, but he gets 30 days of leave a year. Pretty nice, in my opinion.
5) Adventure.
Growing up, we never stayed in one town for longer than a few years, and because of this, I love change. I look forward to the different places the Navy will take us. If we don't like someplace, the good news is we get to move four years later. I think we are so lucky to get to move around our country, and possibly even the world. How many people live in the same place for decades, and would give anything for the chance to live and see other places - but never get to? Of course, moving is always an adjustment, but we are the lucky ones, in my mind. Plus, being in the Navy means that wherever we are based will be near the ocean - you can't go wrong with that. You know it's going to be someplace beautiful.
6) The uniform.
Ladies? Can I get an amen? Navy uniform...Yum.
7) Homecoming Day.
Deployment is not very much fun...although I do get the bed to myself, I get to control the remote, and basically go without putting on make up or worrying about shaving for six months. But with every Deployment, there is always a Homecoming Day. And, as my friend Kathy said to me, Homecoming Day is more exciting than your wedding day. It really is!
8) Military Discount.
I'm not gonna complain if a store wants to give me 10% off!
9) Military ID.
Ladies, if you don't like the photo on your driver's license, this is a second chance for you to get it right.
10) The pride.
I am filled with such pride when I get to tell people my husband is in the Navy. I really am at a loss for words here. He works so hard, sacrifices so much, and never complains. He is my hero in more ways than one.
So, thank you, U.S. Navy, for all that you do. Sometimes it can be a love/hate relationship, but you honestly do a great job of taking care of my husband and our family. And really, is there any better organization one can be associated with?
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